A Fight For The Gun: His Ex Showed Up To Shoot Him | Active Self Protection

Published on June 12, 2026
Duration: 7:48

This video analyzes a self-defense incident where an ex-partner attempted to shoot the victim. It highlights the dangers of post-breakup violence and the critical importance of situational awareness. The analysis details the firearm malfunction, the ensuing struggle for the weapon, and the victim's successful defense and subsequent justified use of force. The instructor emphasizes the need for de-escalation, understanding the '5Ds+1' for disarming, and the importance of carrying trauma medical supplies.

Quick Summary

Statistically, post-breakup periods are high-risk for violence. If escape from an armed attacker isn't possible, the tactic is to 'get into the fight' by closing distance and engaging. The '5Ds+1' (Distance, Deflect, Dominate, Distract, Disarm, Disable) are key for disarming. Always carry trauma medical supplies for potential injuries.

Chapters

  1. 00:00Introduction: Post-Breakup Violence Risk
  2. 00:08Legal Protection After Use of Force
  3. 00:27Incident Overview: Sao Paulo, Brazil
  4. 00:49Attack Begins: Gun Malfunction
  5. 00:58Struggle for the Firearm
  6. 01:23Hot-Crazy Matrix & Relationship Violence
  7. 01:38Domestic Violence is a Two-Way Street
  8. 01:58Adult Conflict Resolution
  9. 02:09Defending Against an Attack
  10. 02:24Staying in the Fight
  11. 02:43Running From Danger vs. Running to Safety
  12. 02:58Getting Into the Fight
  13. 03:04Disarming Techniques: 5Ds+1
  14. 03:27Strength vs. Technique in Disarms
  15. 03:47Justified Use of Force Analysis
  16. 04:06Importance of Trauma Medical Gear
  17. 04:32Conclusion: Warrior Mentality

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the primary risk factor for violence highlighted in this self-defense scenario?

The video emphasizes that one of the statistically likeliest vectors of violence in someone's life occurs immediately after a breakup from an ex-partner. This highlights the heightened risk of confrontation and aggression in the post-relationship period.

What tactical principle should be applied if escape from an armed assailant is not possible?

If escape is not feasible, the principle is to 'get into the fight.' This means closing the distance and actively engaging the assailant to gain control of the weapon and create an opportunity for survival, rather than remaining a static target.

What are the '5Ds+1' for disarming an assailant?

The '5Ds+1' are: Close the distance, Deflect the gun, Dominate the weapon-holding limb, Distract the assailant, Disarm them, and Disable them. Closing the distance is considered the prerequisite.

Why is carrying trauma medical supplies important for self-defense?

It is crucial to carry trauma medical supplies because you might get hurt, potentially badly, during a gunfight. Having a personal first aid kit with items like tourniquets allows for immediate self-treatment without needing to search for help.

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